Most people do not fit into a single box. As Walt Whitman said, “[We] contain multitudes.” And, yet, our minds like categories and boxes. We use them to make sense of the world; to feel a sense of control and safety; and we are constantly — and sometimes unconsciously or subconsciously — judging, categorizing, and putting others (and ourselves) in boxes. These boxes can easily become cages; but they are still just metaphors.