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An Important Announcement About Kissing & Giving (with a little Double Dipping) September 12, 2026

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“L’Shana Tovah U’Metukah!” to everyone celebrating Rosh Hashanah and the High Holidays. Many blessings to everyone and especially to anyone cultivating friendship, peace, freedom, understanding, and wisdom.

Stay safe! Live well! Hydrate and nourish your heart, body, and mind.

“[His mother, Betty] wondered if Terry really knew how much work and money it would take to run across Canada. Apparently he did. He had discussed his idea with Colin Johnstone, chaplain at the cancer clinic, and on the same day had walked into the office of Blair MacKenzie, executive director of the British Columbia and Yukon Division of the Canadian Cancer Society, and told him he wanted to raise money for cancer research. MacKenzie was skeptical.”

“MacKenzie believed Terry’s ambition, to raise one million dollars, was impossible.

Terry left MacKenzie a letter, one that he composed with Rika [Noda] — using his ideas and her grammar. His letter read:

The night before my amputation, my former basketball coach brought me a magazine with an article on an amputee who ran in the New York Marathon. It was then when I decided to meet this new challenge head on and not only overcome my disability, but conquer it in such a way that I could never look back and say it disabled me.”

— quoted from “6. ‘Mom, I’m going to run across Canada’” in Terry Fox: His Story (New Revised Edition) by Leslie Scrivener

Speaking of marathons and tzedakah (giving as a “righteous act”). . .  It’s time to talk about a certain yogathon.

You may be thinking, “Wait, isn’t the yogathon in the Spring? How did I miss the yogathon????” And, yes (to the first question). With the exception of 2016 (when it was in February), the Kiss My Asana yogathon has typically been held in April. This year, for reasons above my paygrade, the yogathon is being held in September. In fact, it starts today (and runs through September 18th).

So, to answer the second question, you didn’t miss it. Today is the first day of the 13th annual Kiss My Asana yogathon that benefits Mind Body Solutions. Normally, I post special offerings throughout the yogathon and sometimes host a Kiss My Asana class. Unfortunately and ironically, I have decided not to host a fundraising page this year.

“My quest would not be a selfish one.”

— quoted from  Terry’s letter to MacKenzie in “6. ‘Mom, I’m going to run across Canada’” in Terry Fox: His Story (New Revised Edition) by Leslie Scrivener

Don’t get it twisted! Even though my reasons for not hosting a page are personal, I am still going to “do yoga, share yoga, and help others”. I am still going to donate and promote the yogathon. However, instead of asking you to kiss my asana, I am going to ask you to pucker up and Kiss [Sandra’s] Asana.

As some of you know, Sandra Razieli is a dear friend, as well as a phenomenal yoga/movement teacher and rabbi. She was my co-teacher on the 2015 Sukkot/Gratitude retreat and #23 when I did the 5 questions (in 2016). She has a long history with Mind Body Solutions and, also, with the best ways to practice when you have a “curvy” spine. Over the last few years, Sandra has been delving a little deeper into the mind part of the whole mind-body experience and she is highlighting some of that work with the brain during a special class for this year’s yogathon.

You can click here to Kiss [Sandra’s] Asana… & Cerebellum!

“I was now successful in proving that a direction of movement is localized in the cerebellum. For I found cases in which the reaction of the extremities was missing in one direction only (on the side of the cerebellar hemisphere which was diseased) whereas the reaction of the extremities on the other, healthy side and all the other reactions in the extremities on the diseased side were normal…. Close investigations, however, proved something more namely that within such a centre there was also localization with regard to joints.”

— quoted from the Nobel Prize lecture “Some New Methods for Functional Testing of the Vestibular Apparatus and the Cerebellum” by Robert Bárány, winner of the 1914 Nobel Prize in Physiology or Medicine (delivered September 11, 1916)

As I mentioned before, my decision not to host a page this year is unfortunate and ironic. The unfortunate part is that it is partially related to my brother’s recent hospitalization. The ironic part is that he could definitely benefit from the work Mind Body Solutions does with people living with trauma, loss, and disability. (And, this is the double dipping part, because I would also appreciate it if anyone could help a brother out!)

“Profound, inspirational, and touched my heart.

Now, when anybody asks how Bert did, you can say, ‘What he said at the beginning was profound, inspirational, and touched my heart.’”

— quoted from Bert’s 2020 eulogy for our mom

If you’re interested in my previous KMA offerings, check out the following (some links only take you to the beginning of a series and/or to YouTube):

Check out this 2023 class post to find out one of the reasons why Mind Body Solutions is so important to me!

Remember, if you subscribe to my YouTube channel, you can be notified as soon as the videos are posted.

“‘If you’ve given a dollar, you are part of the Marathon of Hope.’”

— quoted from  “9. ‘I think you’ve all heard my story’” in Terry Fox: His Story (New Revised Edition) by Leslie Scrivener

If you are struggling, thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

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Who She Was (Is Who She Is) December 7, 2020

Posted by ajoyfulpractice in Books, Healing Stories, Life, Loss, Love, Music, Philosophy, Texas, Vairagya, Wisdom, Writing.
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“A single life touches many hearts…. this reflective space is here for sharing thoughts of a loved one and record memories of a life that will be forever remembered.”

– quoted from I Am Her: She Writes Her Story, Day by Day. And Every Word is True. By M. H. Clark

December 7th always sticks in my head for two reasons. First, in 1941, it became what President Franklin Delano Roosevelt called “a date which will live in infamy” – and the events of that day will come be the focus of a second blog post and this evening’s class. A few years later, this became my mother’s birth date. As many of you know, my mother did not make it to today, her 73rd birthday. During her funeral, my brother eulogized her and asked that his dear friend, Pastor Johnson, complete the eulogy. It was seamless and, well… they said I could share their eloquence.

“Profound, inspirational, and touched my heart.

Now, when anybody asks how Bert did, you can say, ‘What he said at the beginning was profound, inspirational, and touched my heart.’

When I was about 3, I jumped in the driver’s seat of the family car and found the only car in the cul-de-sac and hit it. So, from the beginning, I was a handful. My mother always used to talk about how I sat in an ant mound and let the ants bite me. So, at a young age, everyone could tell I was a little off.

Some would say I was the black sheep of the family. You hear all the time, a mother’s love is unconditional; but, I can say firsthand, I tested that theory over and over again.

Ahma, the name Eric gave her, would always get upset with me and say, “OK Bert, you’re always right.” And I would say, “You always told me I could do anything I wanted to be so I decided I would be right all the time.”

I would love to say we saw eye-to-eye all the time, but that wouldn’t be true. But, I can honestly say I grew up privileged. So much so that in high school they called Ahma and Hey ‘The Huxtables.’

Y’all remember back in the day you had to be home when the street lights came on. II had ignored that rule several times and I was in a crowd of kids, and we say a silhouette coming up the street with what looked like a long snake in her hand. But it wasn’t a snake. It was a nicely sized belt for me.

And the time my ‘big’ brother – I only say big brother because his girth is larger than mine – he fell one night and Hey was at work in DC. It was late and we had to jump in this convertible with a bad top; so we had to let it down and when I say it was cold…that would be an understatement.

Another time, I had been grounded and wanted to go to the ‘After the Homecoming’ and hangout. She let me go on the condition that she shadowed me the whole time. I realized all this was the love she had for me. At the age of 14, I became a very angry child. And about the age of 17, Ahma came to me and asked point blank, ‘Is this the reason?’ And I lied and said, ‘Why would you ask me something like that!’ But I knew she knew.

One time, 2 years ago, Hey got one of those scam calls where they say your son is in jail and needs money. Ahma immediately called ‘Chell and said, ‘What do we need to do to get him out.’ Not, ‘Oh my God, what did he do now?’ What I’m saying is, she was always there and a lot of times she didn’t want me to know it was her.

On August 7th, my mother went from a physical person I could touch and hug, to memories and pictures. I know from the day we are born the hour glass starts running and nobody but God knows how much sand is in the glass. But, even though we know this, and we know God does everything for a reason, it still don’t make sense.

Ahma asked a lot of times, what I was running from and the answer is hurt and pain. And I think sometimes that I would go before a lot of people. Pam, Ahma’s grandmother, was well in her hundreds. Miss Jean fought cancer and was in her 90’s when she passed. So, who would expect my loving mother would go so soon.

In closing, time is precious. Never take anybody for granted that you love. Tell them every chance you get. My last words to my mother were, ‘No, I don’t want to fly. Let me call you back.’ I’ve got a lot of condolences and ‘sorry for your loss,’ but I would trade them all for 30 more minutes with her.

Everyone says, don’t think of the loss; think of the good time and thank God for the time you had – and that’s true. And no matter what, we are all blessed and we should never complain. And because of that I thank God, even though…”

“I’ve had some good days.
I’ve had some hills to climb.
I’ve had some weary days
And some sleepless nights
But when I, when I look around
And I think things over,
All of my good days
Outweigh my bad days.
I, I won’t complain.”

– the beginning of the song “I Won’t Complain,” sung a cappella by Pastor Johnson as a segue between into his remarks

I offer much gratitude to my “bigger” brother Bert and Pastor Johnson for remembering our mother in a way that was “profound, inspirational, and touched my heart,” from beginning to end. I do not have a recording of their seamless beauty; however, here are Cynthia Erivo and Amber Iman in 2016, honoring Cicely Tyson, with a tribute to women and a performance of the song that is an equal gift.

### Daughter, Granddaughter, Sister/Cousin, Best Friend, Neighbor, Wife, Mother, Aunt, Grandmother, Great-Grandmother, Seer, Seeker, Keeper of Secrets, Inspiration ###