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Even More Light [especially for siblings], Redux November 10, 2026

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Happy Diwali and Kali Puja! Happy Festival of the Twin Birthdays! Blessings, light, love, and peace to everyone, everywhere!

May you be healthy, wealthy, and wise!

This is a remixed compilation post. Please note that linked excerpts direct you to posts that will include content related to a specific year and, therefore, may include references to different holidays/events. Class details, date-related information, formatting, and some embedded links have been updated/added.

“Yama said: ‘The goal which all the Vedas declare, which all austerities aim at and which men desire when they lead the life of continence, I will tell you briefly: it is Om.’”

— quoted from Katha Upanishad (Part I – Chapter II, Verse 15) translated by Swami Nikhilananda

Since Diwali, the Indian festival of lights, is a lunar calendar-based holiday, it falls at different times on the Gregorian calendar. In 2026, the fifth day of Diwali — which continues the focus on relationships, this time between siblings — overlaps the Festival of the Twin Birthdays (on the Baháʼí Faith calendar); the anniversary of the birth of Martin Luther (b. 1483); and the anniversary of the 1961 publication of Joseph Heller’s Catch-22.

Click on the excerpt title below for more about how the fifth day of Diwali shines light on siblings.

Oh, Brother! (or, Light On Siblings) *UPDATED*

“Brighten our hearts, O my Lord, with the splendor of Thy knowledge, and illumine our sight with the light of such eyes as are fixed upon the horizon of Thy grace and the Dayspring of Thy glory.”

— quoted from “– XXXI –” in Prayers and Meditations by Bahá’u’lláh (Translated by Shoghi Effendi from the original Persian and Arabic) 

As I mentioned earlier in the year, the Baháʼí Faith is a monotheistic faith that believes in the oneness of God and religion, as well as the oneness and nobility of humanity. The community believes that, historically, there has been a “progressive revelation of religious truth” which has been shared with the world through the voices of the prophets or Divine Messengers, known as “Manifestations of God” (which include “Braham, Krishna, Zoroaster, Moses, Buddha, Jesus Christ, Muhammad, and, in more recent times, the Báb and Bahá’u’lláh”). People within the faith are taught to honor the value of different religious and philosophical traditions as well as the value of education, especially in science (which is viewed by some faiths as being contrary to religion).

The Bahá’í calendar begins around the Vernal (Spring) Equinox in the Northern Hemisphere and has 19 months with 19 days — each named for one of the 19 names/manifestations/attributes of God. For example, “Power” is the English translation for ‘Qudrat, the current month of this solar calendar.1 The fact that light can represent knowledge is one of the reasons I find this year’s overlap with Diwali particularly auspicious.

This last two days of Diwali (2025) overlap two of the nine Bahá’í Holy Days: the birthdays of the twin founders of the faith. Known as the Festival of the Twin Birthdays (or the Twin Holy Birthdays), the birthdays of the the Báb and Bahá’u’lláh started at sunset on Monday night and continue through sunset on Wednesday night. The birthdays are celebrated as one continuous 48-hour “day” — even though the two prophets were born two years apart.

“O peoples of the earth! Verily the resplendent Light of God hath appeared in your midst, invested with this unerring Book, that ye may be guided aright to the ways of peace and, by the leave of God, step out of the darkness into the light and onto this far-extended Path of Truth.”

— quoted from the Qayyúmu’l-Asmá’ (cf. Qur’án 5:15–18), as printed in Selections From the Writings of the Báb by the Báb (Compiled by the Research Department of the Universal House of Justice and translated by Habib Taherzadeh with the assistance of a Committee at the Bahá’í World Centre)

Born in Shiraz, Iran, on October 20, 1819,2 the Báb founded the Babi faith (or Bábism), which evolved into the Bahá’í  Faith. While there are still people who follow the original messianic tradition, most people within the Babi community converted to the Bahá’í  Faith. The Báb is sometimes compared to John the Baptist, in that he is seen as the herald or messenger born to announce the importance of Bahá’u’lláh.

Recognized as the founder of the Bahá’í Faith, Bahá’u’lláh was actually born two years earlier than his religious predecessor, in Tehran, Iran, on November 12, 1817.3 He outlined the laws, practices, and holy days of the Bahá’í Faith in the Kitáb-i-Aqdas (the “Most Holy Book”) and later explained that the Twin Holy Birthdays were seen as one (by God) and that “… two great festivals have been joined into one, auguring a brilliant future.” These are work-free feast days full of joy and considered a celebration of the twin founders as well as of the unity of community.

“You are not only responsible for what you say, but also for what you do not say.”

— Martin Luther (b. 1483)

Click on the excerpt title below for a mini-post that might help you get out of a double bind.

FTWMI: A Quick Note & EXCERPT: “Caught In The Middle” (a post-practice Monday post)

Click on the excerpt title below for more about the theologian and religious reformer Martin Luther (born today in 1483) and, also, about the inspiration behind Joseph Heller ’s Catch-22 (published today in 1961).

For Those Who Missed It: Caught In The Middle

“However, the fact is that during the night season everyone perceiveth the light which he himself, according to his own capacity, giveth out, oblivious that at the break of day this light shall fade away and be reduced to utter nothingness before the dazzling splendor of the sun.

The light of the people of the world is their knowledge and utterance….”

— quoted from the Persian Bayán (VIII, 1.), as printed in Selections From the Writings of the Báb by the Báb (Compiled by the Research Department of the Universal House of Justice and translated by Habib Taherzadeh with the assistance of a Committee at the Bahá’í World Centre)

Please join me today (Tuesday, November 10th) at 12:00 Noon or 7:15 PM for a virtual yoga practice on Zoom. Use the link from the “Class Schedules” calendar if you run into any problems checking into the class. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or by emailing myra      (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

Tuesday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “Diwali (Day 5) for 10222025”]

“‘The enemy,’ retorted Yossarian with weighted precision, ‘is anybody who’s going to get you killed, no matter which side he’s on, and that includes Colonel Cathcart. And don’t you forget that, because the longer you remember it, the longer you might live.’”

— quoted from Catch-22 (Chapter 12) by Joseph Heller (pub. 1961)

If you are struggling, thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).

Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.

Check out the “Class Schedules” calendar for upcoming classes.

NOTES:

1Since it is a moveable feast, the Festival of the Twin Birthdays can fall a month or two earlier, during Mashíyyat (“Will”) or ‘Ilm (“Knowledge”). Bahá’u’lláh originally indicated that if the festival coincided with a fast, the feast would take precedent.

2The birthdays of the Báb and Bahá’u’lláh occurred on the first and second days of Muharram, the first month on the Islamic calendar during their birth years.

3Prior to 2015, Baháʼí living in the Middle East celebrated the Twin Holy Birthdays according to the Islamic calendar (as noted above), while members of the community in other parts of the world used the Gregorian calendar dates.

Yoga Sūtra 1.36: viśokā vā jyotişmatī

— “Or [fixing the mind] on the inner state free of sorrow and infused with light, anchors the mind in stability and tranquility.”

### “Everything that is done in the world is done by hope.” (ML) ###

EXCERPTS RE: Peace & Light (the “missing” Saturday post) November 7, 2026

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Happy Choti Diwali, Diwali, and Kali Puja! Blessings, light, love, and peace to everyone, everywhere!

Stay safe! Live well! Hydrate!

This “missing” post for Saturday, November 7th, is simply a compilation of excerpts.

You can request an audio recording of a related practice via a comment below or (for a slightly faster reply) you can email myra      (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).

Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.

Check out the “Class Schedules” calendar for upcoming classes.

“However, if the process of non-violence is to be effective in counteracting violence, we must first describe and outline it clearly and methodically. Because violent thoughts always precede a violent act, an act of non-violence will be effective only if it is preceded by non-violent thoughts. Violence is an active phenomenon, whereas non-violence is mistakenly thought to be passive – simply the absence of violence. But passive non-violence has no power to extinguish the fire if violence. Non-violence must be as active as violence itself.”

— commentary on Yoga Sūtra 2.33, from The Practice of the Yoga Sutra: Sadhana Pada by Pandit Rajmani Tigunait, PhD

The second day of Diwali, the 5-day festival of light, does not fall on the same Gregorian calendar date every year. This year, it coincided with the anniversary of the 1659 signing of the “Peace of the Pyrenees”.

CLICK ON THE EXCERPT TITLES BELOW FOR MORE. 

First Friday Night Special #61 — Invitation for “… and Breathe Peace In & Breathe Peace Out….” (the “missing” invitation w/excerpts)

FTWMI: “Have Light, Let It Shine”

“oṃ bhūr bhuvaḥ svaḥ
tat savitur vareṇyaṃ
bhargo devasya dhīmahi
dhiyo yo naḥ pracodayāt”

[Conscious, subconscious, unconscious mind, and every plane of existence, we meditate on the (adorable) Light, that it may inspire us, enlighten us, and remove our obstacles.]

— “Gāyatrī Mantra” from the Rig Veda (from Mandala 3.62.10)

Saturday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “Diwali (Day 2-3) 2022”]

If you are struggling, thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

### Breathe Peace In… Breathe Peace Out… & Shine! ###

Just the Saturday music & blessings November 7, 2026

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Happy Choti Diwali, Diwali, and Kali Puja! Blessings, light, love, and peace to everyone, everywhere!

Stay safe! Live well! Hydrate!

Please join me today (Saturday, November 7th) at 12:00 PM for a yoga practice on Zoom. You can use the link from the “Class Schedules” calendar if you run into any problems checking into the class. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or by emailing myra        (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

Saturday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “Diwali (Day 2-3) 2022”]

If you are struggling, thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).

Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.

Check out the “Class Schedules” calendar for upcoming classes.

### 🎶 ###

First Friday Night Special #73 — Invitation for “Mou’ Breath & Sou’ Sax-y Rest” (the “missing” invitation w/excerpts) November 6, 2026

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Happy Dhanteras, Diwali, and Kali Puja! Blessings, light, love, and peace to everyone, everywhere!

Stay safe! Hydrate and nourish your heart, body, and mind. BREATHE!

This is the (backdated and expanded) “missing” invitation for the “First Friday Night Special” on Movember 6th, which includes new and “renewed” content, excerpts, and embedded links to related posts. (There are also more playlist options than usual.) You can request an audio recording of this Restorative Yoga practice (with a little movement and pranayama) via a comment below or (for a slightly faster reply) you can email myra      (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).

Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.

Check out the “Class Schedules” calendar for upcoming classes.

“The expression ‘beau ideal’ was used in the early 1890’s to describe anything that had caught the public fancy.”

— quoted from “Marches: The Beau Ideal (1893)” in The Works of John Philip Sousa by Paul E. Bierley

Some people might think of Yoga and other mindfulness-based practices as a fad or a passing fancy — a ‘beau ideal’, if you will. And, yet, aspects of these practices date back thousands of years. Some of these aspects, like the idea that there are benefits to paying attention to your breath, occur in a variety of practices, from all over the world. Yoga, Buddhism, and certain religious rituals (like praying while kneeling and standing in unison, swaying or shuckling, and/or spinning) also involve movement that is, in some ways, synchronized with the breath. The physical practice of yoga (hatha yoga, regardless of the style or tradition) is different from some of the other practices; however, in that there is a focus on physical and mental/emotional well-being, as well as spiritual/religious/energetic well-being — making Movember a perfect time to practice Yoga.

For that matter, any day (or night) during Movember — also known as No(shave)mber — is an ideal time to breathe and focus on “changing the face of men’s health”.

Click on the link above or the excerpt title below for a general Movember post.

FTWMI: I ALWAYS Moustache You An Important Question (a repurposed note w/excerpt)

“‘Some offer up prana, the mysterious vital energy force within them. They do this through control of the breath, literally stopping their inhaling and exhaling.’”

— Krishna speaking to Arjuna (4.29) in The Bhagavad Gita: A Walkthrough for Westerners by Jack Hawley

While a certain amount of movement is necessary for our overall health, our mind-bodies also need stillness. Just as there are practices with a lot of movement, there are practices with very little movement. No matter the style or tradition, the awareness of breath (and extension of breath) is part of the practice.

Remember, what happens in the body, happens in the mind; what happens in the mind, happens in the body; and both affect the breath. One of the great things about yoga is that enables us to harness the power of the breath (and our awareness of our breath) in order to affect the mind-body.

The way we breathe can not only be an indication of our overall health, it can also be an indication of our well-being in the present moment and a key component in our self-care toolbox. The way we breathe can help us get through challenging situations, interesting times, and overwhelmingly good (or not so good) moments. The way we breathe is also critical if we are playing a wind instrument — perhaps “a thing of beauty”*1 designed by Adolphe Sax (b. 1814) — and a piece of music that highlights said instrument — e.g., a march composed by John Philip Sousa (b. 1854).

Click on the excerpt title below for a post about Adolphe Sax, John Philip Sousa, and taking deep breaths after an election.

A “Little Sax” & Sousa [For Our Journey] (the“missing” post-election post for Wednesday)

“Next, the cornet soloist makes a spectacular entrance with ‘The Post Horn Galop.’ (When Frank Simon was the solo cornetist, he used a specially made post horn. On the final chord, he would show his amazing breath control by holding a high note for a full minute.)”

— quoted from “Humoresques: Showing Off Before Company (1919)” in The Works of John Philip Sousa by Paul E. Bierley

Frank Simon (b. 11/26/1889) was 25 years old when he began playing coronet in John Philip Sousa’s band. Within 3 years, after his stand partner retired, Mr. Simon became cornet soloist and assistant conductor for “The [American] March King”. Even though the he would only work with the composer for a total of six years, those six years helped Frank Simon establish a legacy that served him throughout this life.

According to the description for Michael Freedland’s Music Man: The Story of Frank Simon, “Frank Simon was a charming, funny, sometimes difficult personality whose worst fault, according to his son Joseph, was “‘He didn’t live long enough.”’”. That being said, Frank Simon lived to the age of 77 (and a couple of months) — just two months younger than John Philip Sousa (who died of a heart attack at the age of 77, and about four months). Adolphe Sax, despite the expectations of those around him when he was young, died of pneumonia at the age of 79, and three months).2

Note, all three lived slightly longer than the current average life expectancy for men (76.3-76.5 years) — despite the fact that we now have more knowledge about what keeps people healthy.

DIWALI: A Five-Day Celebration of Light
Although I neglected to mention it during the practice, Friday was also Dhanteras and the beginning of Diwali celebrations around the world. Dhanteras is a day that the Indian ministry of Ayurveda, Yoga and Naturopathy, Unani, Siddha and Homeopathy designated as “National Ayurveda Day” (in 2016) — meaning there is a special focus on health. Many pujans (“offering ceremonies”) are dedicated to Lakshmi, the goddess of wealth and prosperity, fertility and abundant crops, and overall good fortunate. People also create decorations, including rangolas, which are associated with Lakshmi; clean their homes; and buy something new — usually gold, silver, clothes, and gadgets.

“Let us go forth a while and get better air in our lungs. Let us leave our close rooms.”

— Walt Whitman writing about the new game, baseball, in the Brooklyn Eagle (07/23/1846)

This Restorative Yoga (with a little movement) & Pranayama practice is accessible and open to all. 

(NOTE: There will be a little bit of quiet space in this practice.)

Friday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “Movember / November Friday 2026”]

Alternate Playlists: If you would prefer a playlist that starts off a little less sax-y, more ambient options are also available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “Movember / November Friday 2025”] 

Additionally, a light-focused First Friday Night playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “Diwali 4 on Movember 5 2021”]

Prop wise, this is a kitchen sink practice and I will suggest using a wall, table, chair, or bolster during this practice. You can practice without props or use “studio” props and/or “householder” props. Example of Commercial props: 1 – 2 blankets, 2 – 3 blocks, a bolster, a strap, and an eye pillow. Example of Householder props: 1 – 2 blankets or bath towels, 2 – 3 books (similar in size), 2 standard pillows (or 1 body pillow), a belt/tie/sash, and a face towel.

You may want extra layers (as your body may cool down during this practice). Having a wall, chair, sofa, or coffee table may be handy throughout this practice.

If you are thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

NOTES:

1The aforementioned description of a saxophone is quoted from Adolphe Sax and his Saxophone by Leon Kochnitzky.

2CORRECTION: During the 2026 practice, I misquoted the ages of the musicians.

### BREATHE & MOVE (INTO STILLNESS)! ###

FTWMI: I ALWAYS Moustache You An Important Question (a repurposed note w/excerpt) November 3, 2026

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Many blessings to everyone and especially to anyone grateful for friendship, peace, freedom, understanding, and wisdom.

May you be peaceful and happy / May you be healthy and strong!

For Those Who Missed It: The following note was revised (and posted) in 2024. Class details, formatting, and some links (in particular the New York links) have been added/updated. NOTE: Some links will direct you outside of WordPress.

“Moving for mental health is a tradition that goes back to the dawn of Movember.”

— quoted from “The Order of Mo’s Guide to Move” on the Movember (US) website

Most of you mou’ what’s up. Most of you mou’ that it’s Movember and that means I’m once again joining other Mo Bros, Mo Sisters, and Mo Siblings in the effort to change the face of men’s health. This is one of those practices when I talk about men’s physical and mental health — and we get our mooooove on.

Then, we get a little mou’ rest, cause…

“‘We respond differently to life’s unexpected challenges. Sometimes, though, that can leave us feeling worried or overwhelmed. It’s our hope that we can connect men with the right support, and equip their peers with the confidence and skills to reach out and help when it’s most needed.’”

— Brendan Maher, Global Director of Mental Health and Suicide Prevention, Movember

CLICK ON THE EXCERPT TITLE BELOW FOR MORE.

UPDATED 2023: I Moustache You An Important Question

Please join me for a 65-minute virtual yoga practice on Zoom today (Tuesday, Movember 3rd) at 12:00 Noon or 7:15 PM for a yoga practice on Zoom. Use the link from the “Class Schedules” calendar if you run into any problems checking into the class. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or by emailing myra (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

Tuesday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “Movember 3rd 2020”]

Check out Movember in New York!

If you are struggling, thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).

Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.

Check out the “Class Schedules” calendar for upcoming classes.

### MO FOLK COME TOGETHER! ###

EXCERPT (repost): “Recuerda a las inocentes (UPDATED)” November 1, 2026

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Many blessings to everyone and especially to anyone observing All Saints y Día de (los) Muertos!

“‘It’s an occasion for us to intentionally activate our grief and transform it into something beautiful, vibrant and joyous through dance, music, feasting, telling stories, masquerading and celebration. By transforming grief in these ways, Day of the Dead becomes a deep form of healing. Día de los Muertos is also a lively and joyous occasion because it’s a reminder that we are alive,’ [Mathew Sandoval, associate teaching professor at Barrett, The Honors College at Arizona State University] said.

— quoted from the ASU News article entitled, “ASU teaching professor brings Día de los Muertos to life through research, ritual” by Nicole Greason (dated October 31, 2023)

CLICK ON THE EXCERPT TITLE BELOW FOR MORE.

FTWMI: Recuerda a las inocentes (*UPDATED*)

“Sandoval is open to others celebrating Día de los Muertos respectfully because he knows how meaningful the observance is.

‘This holiday is medicine. It really is a way to heal,’ he said. ‘If you ever had to deal with the loss of a loved one, you know that that is a significant loss and there aren’t neat and easy ways to heal from that loss. Because often it leaves a wound in the heart and in the soul that is quite jagged and takes a lot of time to heal from.

‘Day of the Dead is medicine in the sense that if you really honor it, if you make time to honor the person who’s passed, it is a way of healing.’”

— quoted from the Arizona Republic article entitled, “Dia de los Muertos: Why ‘“this holiday is medicine”’ and how you can celebrate respectfully” by Dina Kaur (posted on azcentral.com on October 31, 2023)

Please join me today (Sunday, November 2nd) at 2:30 PM for a yoga practice on Zoom. You can use the link from the “Class Schedules” calendar if you run into any problems checking into the class. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or (for a slightly faster reply) you can email myra   (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

Saturday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “11012026 All Saints / Día de los”]

If you are struggling, thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).

Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.

Check out the “Class Schedules” calendar for upcoming classes.

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2 Quick Notes RE: The Grace of Breathing Into How You’re Feeling & EXCERPT: “Breathe Into How You’re Feeling” October 28, 2026

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Many blessings to everyone and especially to anyone cultivating friendship, peace, freedom, understanding, and wisdom.

Peace in / Peace out. Grace in / Grace out.

“While on my travels I had another idea for a symphony – a program work this time, but its program will remain a conundrum to everyone. Let them guess at it. This program is imbued with subjectivity.”

— quoted from an 1893 letter from Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky to his nephew Vladimir “Bob” Davydov as posted in “Music History Monday: His Own Requiem?” by Robert Greenberg

The very first of six siddhis (“powers” or “abilities”) described as  “powers unique to being human”, in the Sāmkhya Karika, is uha the power of discovery (i.e., “intuitive knowledge”). While I strongly believe in intuitive knowledge — and in intuition, I also believe in discernment and doing a little svādhyāya (“self-study”). What I mean by that, in this case, is noticing how you feel when you receive certain information and asking, “Do I believe this is true, because it validates what I already believe?” and/or “Do I not believe this because it invalidates what I already believe?”

Obviously, there are things that can be proven. There are things we know are true or false because there is empirical evidence. Then, there are things about which we have a “feeling” — and that’s when we start asking questions.

Asking yourself these questions, can help us uproot at least three (3) of the “afflicted or dysfunctional (“klişțā”) thought patterns that lead to suffering: avidyā (“ignorance”), rāga (“attachment [rooted in pleasure]”), and dveşa (“aversion [or attachment rooted in pain”). (YS 2.3-2.9)

These questions are also key elements to media literacy — especially when there are so many examples of misinformation, disinformation, and conspiracy theories floating around.

For Those Who Missed It: The following was originally posted in 2023 (and revised in 2024). Class details and links have been updated.

“If this symphony is misunderstood, and torn to shreds, I shall think it quite normal, and not at all surprising. It will not be the first time. But I myself absolutely believe it to be the best and especially the most sincere of all my works. I love it as I have never loved any single one of my other musical creations.”

— quoted from an 1893 letter from Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky to his nephew Vladimir “Bob” Davydov as posted in “Music History Monday: His Own Requiem?” by Robert Greenberg

How are you feeling today?

Perhaps you are feeling a lot. Perhaps you are feeling one emotion strongly — or a combination of strong emotions. Perhaps you are feeling so much that you are overwhelmed and feeling numb… as if you are feeling nothing.

No matter what you are feeling, take a moment to breathe into what you are feeling.

There is grace in that breath and the ability to breathe into what you are feeling.

Note, that I have not indicated or suggested that what you are feeling is positive, negative, or neutral; good, bad, or neutral. However, there’s a pretty good chance that you assigned a value to the idea of strong feelings, emotions. That’s what we do as humans. That’s one (really three… or six) of the reasons why sensations can be experienced in 108 different ways according to some Eastern philosophies.

PRACTICE NOTE: The 2024 practice focused more on breath and sensations/feelings/vibrations. Previous practices on this date have highlighted musicians born on this date (in 1969 and 1962) who really moved people and/or musical events that emotionally “shook” people. For example, Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky’s Symphony No. 6 in B minor, Op. 74, known as “The Passionate Symphony,” premiered today in 1893 (according to the Gregorian calendar) and Elvis Presley performed the first of two shows at the Pan Pacific Auditorium in Los Angeles, California, today in 1957.

Click on the excerpt title below to learn about some of the conspiracy theories related to Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky and his music.

Breathe Into How You’re Feeling

“‘What’s your emotional power over women?’ demanded one obviously influenced female reporter.

‘Gosh…’ replied Elvis, whispering something inaudible into a mike provided for the occasion.”

— quoted from the 1957 article “Elvis Wiggles, Fans Scream at Pan-Pacific” by Wally George

Please join me today (Wednesday, October 28th) at 4:30 PM or 7:15 PM for a yoga practice on Zoom. You can use the link from the “Class Schedules” calendar if you run into any problems checking into in the class. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or by emailing myra   (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

Wednesday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “10282020 Feeling Pathétique?”]

NOTE: The playlist primarily focuses on Tchaikovsky; however, I did add some before/after music related to Elvis and some musicians born on this date.

If you are struggling, thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).

Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.

Check out the “Class Schedules” calendar for upcoming classes.

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A Quick [REVISED] Note & EXCERPT: “Fourth Step: Once More, With Feeling” October 27, 2026

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Many blessings to everyone and especially to anyone cultivating friendship, peace, freedom, understanding, and wisdom.

May everyone be healthy and strong; may everyone be peaceful and happy; and may everyone recognize their whole self.

The following is a slightly revised version of a previously posted note and excerpt.

“Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light”

— quoted from the poem “Do not go gentle into that good night” by Dylan Thomas (b. 1914)

There are a lot of noteworthy things related to this date in history — including the fact that Laura Inter founded Brújula Intersexual (Intersex Compass), “a Mexican organization that works with intersex people, activists, and communities in Mexico, Latin America, and Spain”, today in 2013. All of the things, even the ones not mentioned in the practice and/or the excerpt below, are related to how we live our lives (i.e., how we spend our time) and how we interact with each other during the limited time that we have together.

The hope is that we can respect each other, be kind, and hold space for what each of us experiences on any given day. The hope is that each of us will step into the arena and co-create a world where all our hearts can shine and [sing].

“I took a deep breath and listened to the old bray of my heart: I am, I am, I am.”

or

“I took a deep breath and listened to the old brag of my heart: I am, I am, I am.”

— quoted from two different editions of The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath (b. 1932)

CLICK ON THE EXCERPT TITLE BELORE FOR MORE.

Fourth Step: Once More, With Feeling

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”

— quoted “The Man in the Arena” portion of the “Citizenship in a Republic” speech (delivered April 23, 1910, Sorbonne, Paris) by former President Theodore Roosevelt (b. 1858)

Please join me today (Tuesday, October 27th) at 12:00 Noon or 7:15 PM for a yoga practice on Zoom. You can use the link from the “Class Schedules” calendar if you run into any problems checking into the class. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or by emailing myra        (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

Tuesday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “10272021 Another Appointment EVE”]

NOTE: Over the last few years, we have used several different playlists on this date. If you are using a recording, double check the playlist date.

“You and I are told increasingly we have to choose between a left or right. Well I’d like to suggest there is no such thing as a left or right. There’s only an up or down: [up] man’s old –  old-aged dream, the ultimate in individual freedom consistent with law and order, or down to the ant heap of totalitarianism. And regardless of their sincerity, their humanitarian motives, those who would trade our freedom for security have embarked on this downward course.”

— quoted from the 1964 “A Time for Choosing” speech by Ronald Reagan

If you are struggling, thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).

Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.

Check out the “Class Schedules” calendar for upcoming classes.

“And further, monks, as if a monk sees a body dead…, he then applies this perception to his own body thus: ‘Verily, also my own body is of the same nature; such it will become and will not escape it.’

Thus he lives contemplating the body in the body internally, or he lives contemplating the body in the body externally, or he lives contemplating the body in the body internally and externally. He lives contemplating origination-factors in the body, or he lives contemplating dissolution factors in the body, or he lives contemplating origination-and-dissolution-factors in the body. Or his mindfulness is established with the thought: ‘The body exists,’ to the extent necessary just for knowledge and mindfulness, and he lives detached, and clings to nothing in the world. Thus also, monks, a monk lives contemplating the body in the body.”

— quoted from Satipatthana Sutta (The Foundations of Mindfulness) translated by Nyanasatta Thera

ERRATA: The original title erroneously described this as a Monday post-practice post. (rev. 11/02/2026)

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Celebrate Your Wins, Give Yourself a (Little) Break… & Sing About Your Stuff (the “missing” Sunday compilation) October 18, 2026

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“Nine days and nine nights of blessings and happiness if you are celebrating Sharada Navaratri!” Many blessings to everyone and especially to anyone sharing their stories about friendship, peace, freedom, understanding, and wisdom.

Stay safe! Live well! Hydrate and nourish your heart, body, and mind.

This “missing” compilation post for Sunday, October 18th, (and the eighth day of Navaratri) includes new content and excerpts. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or (for a slightly faster reply) you can email myra      (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).

Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.

Check out the “Class Schedules” calendar for upcoming classes.

“…we must learn our common symbols,
preen them
and share them with the world.”

— quoted from the preface to for colored girls who have considered suicide/when the rainbow is enuf  by Ntozake Shange

Once upon a time, people only knew the stories of the people and the places in their lands. The stories might have had similar outlines, but the details were different. The symbols and signs were different. As people travelled, as populations expanded, stories were shared. But, there were still a limited amount of stories being told in any given area — and, in some areas, only certain storytellers (telling stories about certain people) were celebrated.

Technology changed all that.

Today, many people have the ability to read, hear, and/or watch stories from all over the world. More importantly, more people than ever before are able to share their stories. While you might have immediately thought about the internet or a computer or even a television, the technology I was referencing was the radio. But, not just any radio: a “pocket-sized” transistor radio.

The first commercial transistor radio, introduced today in 1954, created the opportunity for more stories to be told to more people. Ntozake Shange, the award-winning playwright and novelist who was born today in 1948, told some stories that had never been shared on a global stage… stories about women.

“somebody/anybody
sing a black girl’s song
bring her out
to know herself
to know you
but sing her rhythms
carin/struggle/hard times”

— The Lady in Brown with all the other Ladies from for colored girls who have considered suicide/when the rainbow is enuf  by Ntozake Shange

CLICK ON THE EXCERPT TITLE BELOW FOR THEIR STORIES!

For Those Who Missed It: This is one way you can hear me SINGING BOUT MY STUFF (a slightly expanded repost)

“I found god in myself
and i loved her
i loved her fiercely”

— All the Ladies from for colored girls who have considered suicide/when the rainbow is enuf  by Ntozake Shange

Joseph Campbell described seventeen stages in the monomyth or Hero’s Journey. In some ways, the tenth stage (Apotheosis) marks the beginning of the end. The heroine is still in a different world and there can still be a lot of adventure left. In fact, some have said that the hardest and most challenging part of the journey is still ahead. However, some of the major battles have been fought, trials and tribulations have been overcome, and there is some resolution… as well as some resolve on the part of the hero.

The word “apotheosis” comes from Late Latin, meaning “deification”. Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines it as “the perfect form or example of something: quintessence” and “the highest or best part of something: peak”. There is a religious component to the apotheosis — one that plays out quite a bit in religious art. However, different religions have different theology around whether or not someone can actually become deified or whether they can simply become more god-like. Either way, the process often involves a metaphorical, spiritual, and/or physical death… and rebirth.

In the stories related to Navaratri, there is a moment of rebirth and renewal that is related to the eighth manifestation of Durga/Pavarti and the inspiration for the eighth step in our journey: Take a moment to renew yourself and celebrate your wins!

“New mind, new moon.
I’ve seen the great ocean made new.”
“Ever since I’ve scoured my body and mind,
I, Lalla, have been as new as new can be!”

— Poem 117, as printed in I, Lalla: The Poems of Lal Dĕd by Lal Dĕd (Translated from the Kashmiri with an Introduction and Notes by Ranjit Hoskote)

The following description related to the eighth day of Navaratri is a revised and (slightly) expanded excerpt.

Today was the eighth night/day of Navaratri, the Hindu celebration of God as a woman. The penultimate manifestation of Durga/Parvati is known as Mahagauri, the one of “great purity”. She is the mother Goddess who slays the demon-king. Remember, each of the nine manifestations of Durga represent Her at a different point in her life/journey. By the time we get to the eighth manifestation, Parvati is already married — but the demons can only be killed by a virgin. Obviously, she can not go back; she has to go forward in order to prepare herself for battle.

In some versions of her story, she practices tapas, prays, and makes offerings. At one point, she bathes in the Ganges River, one of the sacred rivers in India, and emerges with the rosy glow of youth. She is depicted in art with three eyes and four arms; riding a white bull; and carrying a trident and a damaru (a small hand drum) in her upper hands, while her lower hands form the “stop the ignorance”, mudra (which is also a seal of “fearlessness”) and the mudra associated with offering/ receiving a blessing. Both the trident and the drum are associated with power and Shiva, and the hand that is offering/receiving a blessing is also holding japamala (or meditation) beads. She is sometimes associated with the color pink, as a symbol of hope and optimism.

In parts of India, people begin their eighth day by making pūjā or offerings of flowers to celebrate her wisdom, beauty, and ability to bring peace. Then they get ready for the final celebrations. As I have mentioned before, this fourth celebration of Navaratri is the largest and leads directly into a related celebration on the tenth day.

For some people, this festival is also preparation for Diwali — which is another celebration with epic stories about a great adventure full of trials and tribulations, victories and defeats, healing and homecoming.

“I was missing something
something so important
something promised
a laying on of hands
fingers near my forehead
strong
cool
moving
making me whole
sense pure
all the gods coming into me
laying me open to myself
I was missing something
something promised
something free
a laying on of hands”

— quoted from for colored girls who have considered suicide/when the rainbow is enuf  by Ntozake Shange

Sunday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “10182026 STILL Singing Bout OUR Stuff”]

If you are struggling, thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

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Water is Nourishing, Healing, & Purifying!
Water is Life!
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Action, (In)Action, & Doing It Differently (the “missing” Saturday compilation) October 17, 2026

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“Nine days and nine nights of blessings and happiness if you are celebrating Sharada Navaratri!” Many blessings to everyone and especially to anyone cultivating friendship, peace, freedom, understanding, and wisdom on the International Day for the Eradication of Poverty.

Stay safe! Live well! Hydrate and nourish your heart, body, and mind.

This “missing” compilation post for Saturday, October 17th, (and the seventh day of Navaratri) includes new content and excerpts. This post and the related practice include passing references to current events and violence. However, this post does not include any explicit details. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or (for a slightly faster reply) you can email myra         (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).

Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.

Check out the “Class Schedules” calendar for upcoming classes.

“The sun beneath the navel was made to burn.
When the breath, rising there, flows through the throat,
It comes out long and burns.
But when it meets the moon river flowing from the crown,
It comes out short and cools.”

— Poem 54, as printed in I, Lalla: The Poems of Lal Dĕd by Lal Dĕd (Translated from the Kashmiri with an Introduction and Notes by Ranjit Hoskote)

There are times when it seems hard to know what to do and what to say. There are times when there are just no words… and nothing you do seems to have an immediate effect. And, I’m not going to lie: Sometimes the best thing — and the only thing — you can do is show up, be still, and be quiet.

Sit and breathe. Breathe and sit, with the awareness that you are sitting and breathing. Notice how the inhale is cooler than the exhale. Notice how the exhale is warmer than the inhale. Notice how your body extends and expands as you inhale; how it settles back into itself and into your support as you exhale.

This is the practice. It is a simple practice and, also, a powerful practice.

It is a practice that begins with the breath: that symbol of our life force, that symbol of our spirt.

“What the books taught me, I’ve practised.
What they didn’t teach me, I’ve taught myself.
I’ve gone into the forest and wrestled with the lion.
I didn’t get this far by teaching one thing and doing another.”

— Poem 111, as printed in I, Lalla: The Poems of Lal Dĕd by Lal Dĕd (Translated from the Kashmiri with an Introduction and Notes by Ranjit Hoskote)

At any given time, on any given day, people all over the world are at the beginning, the middle, or the end of this same practice. They may sit in a different way and/or move in and out of different poses; but, all over the world — including in Bend, Oregon, as we did a few weeks ago (in some of the same spaces and with some of the teachers), people will turn to a mindfulness-based practice as a way to cope with tragedy, find clarity, and (eventually) as a way to heal.

A mindfulness-based practice can be powerful and healing when you do it for yourself and, also, when you physically (and/or emotionally and energetically) sit with people who have experienced a great and horrific tragedy. Sometimes people just need to know that you are present, holding space for and sitting with their suffering. That is one way to practice with compassion and lovingkindness.

There is a time and a place when this is what is needed.

The thing to remember is that, no matter how you do it, this is a practice of action and inaction. It is also a practice “in action”. As powerful as the practice is, on the mat and on the cushion, the real power comes from what we do (and/or don’t do) when we move off the mat and off the cushion.

“It is far more creative to work with the idea of mindfulness rather than the idea of will. Too often people try to change their lives by using the will as a kind of hammer to beat their lives into proper shape. This way of approaching the sacredness of one’s own presence is externalist and violent. It brings you falsely outside yourself, and you can spend years lost in the wilderness of your own mechanical, spiritual programs. You can perish in a famine of your own making. If you work with a different rhythm, you will come easily and naturally home to yourself. Your soul knows the geography of your destiny. Your soul alone has the map of your future, therefore you can trust this indirect, oblique side of yourself. If you do, it will take you where you need to go, but more important it will teach you a kindness of rhythm in your journey. There are no general principles for this art of being. Yet the signature of this unique journey is inscribed deeply in each soul. If you attend to yourself and seek to come into your presence, you will find exactly the right rhythm for your life.”

— quoted from Anam Cara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom by John O’Donohue

This practice begins with the breath and our breath establishes our rhythm. Sometimes, however, we need to change things up. We can change things up by changing our breath pattern and/or by changing  the shapes in which we breathe (i.e., the poses). Doing the same sequence again and again and again, gives us the opportunity to see changes happening in real time, over time. It can also be comforting, especially in times of uncertainty. On the flip side, changing the sequence up sometimes allows us to gain new insight and/or break old habits.

Either way of practicing can help us break up stagnate energy and push us out of (either kind of) inertia. In other words, either way of practicing can be healing and can create opportunities for us to do things differently — even when it seems impossible.

“Do it differently
So it won’t come out the same
Step up, be strong,
Get yourself out of pain.

So you don’t have a clue
Damned if you don’t
Damned if you do
Make yourself happy by checking with you
Before you make a move
To do what someone else wants you to do.
Take your time
Don’t be pressured
Know your mind
This is behavior you have never practiced before”

— quoted from the poem “DIFFERENTLY” by Donna Garrett

Click on the excerpt title below for a date-related 2021 post.

Do It, But Differently (the Sunday post)

“We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life waiting for us. The old skin has to be shed before the new one can come.”

— quoted from A Joseph Campbell Companion: Reflections on the Art of Living by Joseph Campbell

This is the practice. It is a simple practice and, also, a powerful practice.

Every practice is also a journey.

This past Sunday, we started a special 9-day journey inspired by Navaratri. Additionally, the Saturday practices are their own independent journey. The Saturday journeys are driven by philosophy, specific sequencing, and an intention. The 2026 intention includes a focus on aligning action and, also, on releasing what no longer serves us. Sometimes, that release is automatic; like an exhale or the natural shedding of hair. Other times, however, we have to be very deliberate, very intentional, and very honest about what is not working.

The process of letting go of what no longer serves us is the seventh step in our journey. It requires being honest with ourselves. It is also a little scary; because change, in general, can be scary. Remember, fear of loss or death is the final afflicted or dysfunctional thought pattern that leads to suffering. (YS 1.5, 2.3, and 2.9) Even knowing that, we can find comfort in the familiar and fear the unknown.

Thankfully, we have reached the point in our 9-day journey that is connected to fearlessness.

A version of the following (revised) excerpt was previously posted. Some links and date-related information has been updated/added.

“I find a lot of similarity between Goddess Kalaratri, who symbolizes the spiritual power of transcendence, and Goddess Chandraghanta, who represents the power of transformation (in chapter 3). While transformation happens from taking strong, consistent action to overcome our fears, transcendence results from applying spiritual knowledge to see traumas we have experienced through the eyes of wisdom. This ensures we never see ourselves as helpless victims at the mercy of a cruel world but rather as powerful manifesters of our own destinies.”

— quoted from the “Cultivating Transcendence” section of “Chapter 7 — Transcending Trauma with Wisdom” in The Way of the Goddess: Daily Rituals to Awaken Your Inner Warrior and Discover Your True Self by Ananta Ripa Ajmera

Today (Saturday) was also the seventh day of Navaratri, the Hindu festival of “nine nights” celebrating divine feminine energy in various manifestations. This seventh day of Navaratri is dedicated to Kalaratri, the most ferocious form of Durga/Parvati. I will admit that I sometimes have a hard time with elements of the Divine that show up as ferocious. However, I appreciate that sometimes strong, fierce energy/medicine is needed to eliminate negative energy — and this is why Kalaratri is so strong: She eliminates negativity.

Some believe that Kalaratri destroys all demons, ghosts, evil spirits just be showing up. She is associated with nighttime (which is when plants grow) and the crown chakra (which is this present moment). Her name is sometimes used interchangeably with Kali, who is the dark-skinned Goddess associated with destruction, time, and change. In one story, she sheds her skin in order to win a battle.

Because people believe she can give her devotees siddhis (“abilities”) like knowledge, power, and wealth, she is also known as Shubankari (“Auspicious”). People also believe Kalaratri can make someone fearless.

Of course, being fearless comes in handy if you want to bring about some “good” changes in the world — especially when you are committed to non-violence.

“Despite Goddess Kalaratri’s frightening appearance, I find her to be the most loving form of Goddess Durga because she removes everything that is not us: the illusions, lies, and myths we have subscribed to (without even knowing we have done so!). Because only when we are free from illusions are we truly free. This goddess brings the Gospel of John to life: ‘And you shall know the Truth, and that Truth shall set you free.’

Vedanta spiritual philosophy describes Truth, to be true, must be so at all times: past, present, and future.”

— quoted from the “Cultivating Transcendence” section of “Chapter 7 — Transcending Trauma with Wisdom” in The Way of the Goddess: Daily Rituals to Awaken Your Inner Warrior and Discover Your True Self by Ananta Ripa Ajmera

Saturday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “10172021 Do It, But Differently”]

NOTE: This playlist contains Easter eggs! Did you find them. The three birthday ones are stacked together — and one is actually a double. But there’s one I don’t always mention in the practice. (They are all related to the date, and the theme, but don’t be surprised if you notice there’s one or two that are obviously missing.)

If you are struggling, thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is an app, which I have not researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or need a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

### “Wherever men and women are condemned to live in extreme poverty, human rights are violated. To come together to ensure that these rights be respected is our solemn duty.” — Joseph Wresinski, Text Engraved on Original Commemorative Stone [for the International Day for the Eradication of Poverty] in Paris, France ###