Many blessings to everyone and especially to anyone celebrating World Meditation Day, Counting the Omer, and/or observing the fifth week of Pascha and/or Apodosis of Prepolovenie.
“Be not the first by whom the new are tried,
Not yet the last to lay the old aside.”
— quoted from “Part 2” of An Essay on Criticism by Alexander Pope
In addition to being World Meditation Day and the anniversary of the birth of Alexander Pope (born 1688, according to the Old Style / Julian calendar, today is the day Clara Barton founded the American Red Cross in 1881.
“Clara promptly wrote to her Boston friend of the Franco-Prussian War days, Edmund Dwight:
There seems to be such a muddle of ideas growing out of the mishaps in Congress that it was very apparent that somebody must say something and that, you know, is the place where I always come in; the door that nobody else will go in at, seems always to swing open widely for me.”
— quoted from “PART TWO – XIV. Johnstown Flood” in Angel of the Battlefield: The Life of Clara Barton by Ishbel Ross
Please join me today (Wednesday, May 21st) at 4:30 PM or 7:15 PM for a yoga practice on Zoom.You can use the link from the “Class Schedules”calendar if you run into any problems checking into the class. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or (for a slightly faster reply) you can email myra(at) ajoyfulpractice.com.
Wednesday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “05212025 More Fools & More Angels”]
The post excerpted above includes this musical meditation, which could absolutely be used for a practice.
If you are thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255)for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.
White Flag is a new app, which I have not yet researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.
In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es). Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.)
Thank you to everyone who Kiss[ed] MyAsana!
While you helped me surpass my fundraising goal, the overall fundraiser raised over half of its goal!!
Whether you showed up in a (Zoom) class, used a recording, shared a post or video, liked and/or commented on a post or video, and/or made a donation — you and your efforts are appreciated! Thank you!!!
### Understand Yourself / Learn Compassion / Learn Love: “Just open your heart and that’s a start” ~ The Moody Blues (KB / BTT) ###
Many blessings to everyone and especially to anyone observing World Meditation Day, Eastertide, Counting the Omer, and/or working as a force of peace, freedom, and fulfillment (inside and outside).
This is the “missing” post for Tuesday, May 21st. Even though there are some philosophical references, this is not the deep-dive we did in 2022. This post contains passing references to war and natural disaster.You can request an audio recording of this practice or a related practice via a comment below or (for a slightly faster reply) you can email myra (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.
In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).
Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.
— quoted from “Part 3” of An Essay on Criticism by Alexander Pope
Before we get into why someone might fear to go somewhere, we have to figure out the difference between a fool and an angel. For that matter, what is the difference between a doctor and a saint or a poet or an essayist? We have archetypes, stereotypes, and tropes in our mind that lead us to visualize someone — like a citizen — in a certain way. But, the truth is that a single person can be many things: saint and sinner, doctor and mathematician, devoted poet and nihilist.
Furthermore, there is no rule of nature that keeps a very educated person from being foolish. Nor is there anything that proves a person perceived as being foolish can never be wise. People, like most things in the world, are multi-dimensional. This could go without saying, except for the fact that our perceptions tend to flatten out our understanding and, in doing so, cause us to interact with a person or a situation as if they are one dimensional. So, then, it needs to be said:
— “Although the same objects may be perceived by different minds, they are perceived in different ways, because those minds manifested differently.”
As I mentioned on Saturday, Omar Khayyám, who was both a mathematician and a poet (among other things), noted that doctors and saint “Came out by the same door where in I went.” This line in The Rubáiyát can be applied to every aspect of life (and death); meaning that while the details may be different, the journey is the same. The circumstances of our birth, life, and death may be different, but our ultimate journey — for fulfillment and freedom — is the same.
Patanjali — known as the author of books on Sanskrit grammar and linguistics, the Yoga Philosophy, and Ayurveda — indicated that everything in the known/perceived world (including ourselves) is a manifestation of the gunas, energy moving in three (3) different ways, and our sensory perception of that energy. In Yoga Sūtra 2.18, he stated that the purpose of everything (including ourselves) is to bring about fulfillment and freedom (or liberation) and described the gunas as active/changing; resting/stabilizing; and illuminating. The only problem, as Patanjali pointed out in the sūtras is that we are attached to our understanding, which is based on our perception — which is limited by our experiences and what our mind-intellect shows us (YS 2.20).
And before you think that this idea is only limited to Eastern philosophers, allow me to point point out that the English poet and translator Alexander Pope also encouraged people to be aware of their perceptions and noted that wisdom can be found within that practice.
“’Tis with our judgments as our watches, none
Go just alike, yet each believes his own.”
“Yet if we look more closely we shall find
Most have the seeds of judgment in their mind;
Nature affords at least a glimm’ring light;”
— quoted from “Part 1” of An Essay on Criticism by Alexander Pope
Born May 21, 1688 (according to the Old Style / Julian calendar), Alexander Pope experienced the dangers of narrow-mindedness almost as soon as he was born. Anti-Catholic sentiment in London caused his family to relocated to the countryside when he was a baby and also led to him being homeschooled by his aunt and a priest. When he was 12 years old, a bout of tuberculosis stunted his growth and caused severe kyphosis in his back. Even though bullies mocked him for his height (4’6”) and hunched back, Mr. Pope had a brilliant mind and wrote some of the most quoted works in the English language. In fact, his words are so well-known that people who have never read poems like The Rape of the Lock and An Essay on Criticism may find that the quote from the poems on a regular basis.
People may also notice that his words are as true to his time and circumstances as they are to ours. For example, in An Essay on Criticism, Mr. Pope wrote cautioned poets and literary critics to be aware of their own subjectivity when it comes to art — words that can also be applied to everything from our own inner critic, our criticism of others, and/or our criticism of ideas.
“Be not the first by whom the new are tried,
Not yet the last to lay the old aside.”
— quoted from “Part 2” of An Essay on Criticism by Alexander Pope
Alexander Pope’s advice about letting go of what no longer serves us and being open to new ideas, brings us back to the concept of fools and angels — and to Clara Barton, who founded the American Red Cross today (May 21st) in 1881, and who was simultaneously perceived by her contemporaries as a fool and an angel.
Clara Barton’s journey as a healer began in 1832, when her brother David fell off of a barn roof. He initially seemed fine, but then he (as is often the case with insults to the brain) he developed a headache and fever. A doctor prescribed the administration of leeches — which was quote common at the time — and 10-year-old Clara started nursing her brother back to health. It took 2 years for David to recover. In addition to applying leeches, young Clara also assisted with a “steam treatment,” which some would argue was more beneficial than the bloodletting.
“A little learning is a dang’rous thing;”
“Good nature and good sense must ever join;
To err is human; to forgive, divine.”
— quoted from “Part 2” of An Essay on Criticism by Alexander Pope
It’s hard to know if sitting by her brother’s bedside and taking care of him suited Clara Barton because she was shy or if being David’s nursemaid led to her being uncomfortable in big groups. Either way, because she was noticeably shy and developed a stutter, her mother took her to a phrenologist (also quite common at the time) who suggested that Ms. Barton study to become a teacher. She started teaching when she was 18 years old and was very successful.
When she retired from teaching, at the age of 33, she started working at the United States Patent Office where she was again, very successful. In fact, she was so successful that she lived up to her ideal that, “I may sometimes be willing to teach for nothing, but if paid at all, I shall never do a man’s work for less than a man’s pay.” However, some people (in particular, some men) were upset with her success. That friction led her to leave her patent job for a few years; but, she returned to Washington, D. C. just before the Civil War broke out. In 1861, she started nursing wounded Union soldiers in her area. Soon, news of the devastation during the First Battle of Battle of Bull Run (also known as the Battle of First Manassas) reached Washington and Clara Barton realized the neither army was prepared to take care of the wounded. So she stepped in and did what she could — just as she did when she was a 10-year-old kid.
“‘I will remain here while anyone remains and do whatever comes to my hand,’ she declared stoutly. ‘I may be compelled to face danger, but never fear it, and while our soldiers can stand and fight, I can stand and feed and nurse them.’”
— quoted from Clara Barton, Professional Angel by Elizabeth Brown Pryor
After the war, Clara Barton traveled to Geneva, Switzerland to learn about the International Red Cross and Red Crescent Movement. Her idea to establish a Red Cross society in the United States was initially met with doubt and criticism. Government officials didn’t believe there would be another war like the Civil War and, therefore, did not see the need for a neutral organization like the Red Cross. But, Ms. Barton was persistent and pointed out that the American Red Cross could be used for things like natural disasters.
Her point was proven when over 2,209 people died and thousands more were injured because of the Johnstown Flood in Pennsylvania on May 31, 1889. At the time, it was one of the worst disasters in U.S. history. Ms. Barton and five Red Cross volunteers arrived in Pennsylvania five days after the flood. Just like Jean-Henri Dunant did in Solferino, Italy in 1859, Ms. Barton assembled doctors, nurses, and relief workers while also requesting and distributing supplies (including food and water). She and her team also established “Red Cross Hotels” to shelter those whose homes were destroyed. Then, Clara Barton become instrumental in rebuilding Johnstown and the surrounding area. In total, she spent 5 months in Johnstown. Her efforts not only restored the area, it cemented her efforts to establish the American Rec Cross.
Today, the American Red Cross is the designated U. S. affiliate of the International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies and is one of the 191 member Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies, which provides emergency assistance and “first-line disaster response services, as auxiliaries to the national authorities in their countries.” It is also a critical part of disaster preparedness and education in the United States.
“Clara promptly wrote to her Boston friend of the Franco-Prussian War days, Edmund Dwight:
There seems to be such a muddle of ideas growing out of the mishaps in Congress that it was very apparent that somebody must say something and that, you know, is the place where I always come in; the door that nobody else will go in at, seems always to swing open widely for me.”
— quoted from “PART TWO – XIV. Johnstown Flood” in Angel of the Battlefield: The Life of Clara Barton by Ishbel Ross
Tuesday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “05212022 The Fools and the Angels”]
POST SCRIPT— PRACTICE/MUSIC NOTES :
Even though I consider my practice a moving meditation and pulled from different medical/movement-based sciences to make this particular practice a mediation on healing, I did not realize that May 21st in World Meditation Day. Also, even though the playlist includes a track by John Butler Trio, I didn’t know (until after the practice) that John Butler was livestreaming a musical meditation today, which could absolutely be used for a practice.
“Ask the mirror on the wall
Who’s the biggest fool of all
Bet you’ll feel small, it happens to us all
See the world, ask what’s it for
Understanding, nothing more
Don’t you feel small? It happens to us all”
— quoted from the song “Don’t You Feel Small” by The Moody Blues (written by Graeme Edge)
Thank you to everyone who Kiss[ed] My Asana!
We surpassed the overall fundraiser goals & one of my personal goals!!! Whether you showed up in a (Zoom) class, used a recording, shared a post or video, liked and/or commented on a post or video, and/or made a donation — you and your efforts are appreciated! Thank you!!!
### Understand Yourself / Learn Compassion / Learn Love: “Just open your heart and that’s a start” ~ The Moody Blues (KB / BTT) ###
Many blessings to everyone and especially to anyone observing Eastertide, Counting the Omer, and/or working as a force of peace, freedom, and fulfillment (inside and outside).
“Be not the first by whom the new are tried,
Not yet the last to lay the old aside.”
— quoted from “Part 2” of “An Essay on Criticism” by Alexander Pope (b. 1688, O. S.)
Please join me today (Tuesday, May 21st) at 12:00 PM or 7:15 PM for a yoga practice on Zoom. You can use the link from the “Class Schedules”calendar if you run into any problems checking into the class. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or by emailing myra (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.
Tuesday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “05212022 The Fools and the Angels”]
“Clara promptly wrote to her Boston friend of the Franco-Prussian War days, Edmund Dwight:
There seems to be such a muddle of ideas growing out of the mishaps in Congress that it was very apparent that somebody must say something and that, you know, is the place where I always come in; the door that nobody else will go in at, seems always to swing open widely for me.”
— quoted from “PART TWO – XIV. Johnstown Flood” in Angel of the Battlefield: The Life of Clara Barton by Ishbel Ross
Thank you to everyone who Kiss[ed] My Asana!
We surpassed the overall fundraiser goals & one of my personal goals!!! Whether you showed up in a (Zoom) class, used a recording, shared a post or video, liked and/or commented on a post or video, and/or made a donation — you and your efforts are appreciated! Thank you!!!
In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es).
Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.
– “Although the same objects may be perceived by different minds, they are perceived in different ways, because those minds manifested differently.”
Please join me for a 65-minute virtual yoga practice on Zoom today (Sunday, May 21st) at 2:30 PM.Use the link from the “Class Schedules” calendar if you run into any problems checking into the class. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below or by emailing myra (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.
Sunday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “05212022 The Fools and the Angels”]
“‘I will remain here while anyone remains and do whatever comes to my hand, [Clara Barton, b. 1881] declared stoutly. I may be compelled to face danger, but never fear it….’”
– quoted from Clara Barton, Professional Angel by Elizabeth Brown Pryor
In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es). Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.)
“Shana Tovah U’Metukah!” to anyone who is observing the High Holidays.
For Those Who Missed It:The following was originally posted in 5781/2020. Class and date-related details have been updated. An extra quote and a recent video have also been embedded within the main text.
“Why can’t we talk it over? Oh it seems to me That sorry seems to be the hardest word”
– quoted from “Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word” by Sir Elton John and Bernie Taupin
For years, I avoided saying the words, “I’m sorry.” It wasn’t that I never made a mistake or didn’t feel remorse about something I had said or done or even thought. Instead, I very deliberately, very intentionally, practiced expressing my remorse with other words. Because, despite the song and the old saying, “sorry” is a word I think it is far too easy for people to say.
We say we’re sorry when we accidentally bump into someone while walking or when we both reach for the same prop in a yoga class. We say “sorry” when we hit the wrong button on the elevator and the door closes on someone who was trying to catch it or when we don’t hold the door open for someone who has their hands full. We say “sorry” when we didn’t hear or understand something someone says and we say we’re sorry when we don’t want to do something that’s clearly not right for us to do. We use the same word for the little inconsequential stuff as for the really big stuff and we do this despite the fact that we have so many other words; words that in some cases are much more appropriate for a situation. (Say hello, “excuse me” and “pardon me.”)
I apologize.
I didn’t mean to hurt you.
I’ll do better next time.
Please forgive me.
I was wrong.
Please give me a second chance.
Pardon me.
I regret what I did/said.
My bad.
Excuse me.
Please accept my regrets.
Mea culpa.
Earlier in the New Year (that started this past Sunday at sunset), I mentioned that words are one of our super powers – and by that I mean they are one of the siddhis (or “powers”) unique to being human according to Indian philosophy. In fact, the process of asking and/or offering forgiveness is something that utilizes all six (6) of the powers unique to being human.
First, there is uha (“knowledge without doubt, clear understanding, intuitive knowledge”). In a dhamma talk entitled “The Ancient Heart of Forgiveness,” Buddhist teacher Jack Kornfield refers to the act of forgiveness as a “a deep process of the heart, which requires a person to process and honor ”the betrayal of yourself or others, the grief, the anger, the hurt, the fear.” I’ll add to that the need to process and honor the love, expectation, and disappointment that are usually involved in the situation. In order to reach the point where we can truly ask and/or offer forgiveness we have to understand the situation and the underlying emotions. The absolute worst “apologies” ever – and I put that in quotes, because they really aren’t apologies – are conditional and redirect action towards those who have been harmed. For instance, when people say something like, “I’m sorry if you were offended, but…” and/or “I apologize to anyone I may have offended,” they aren’t actually apologizing. The act of asking for and/or offering forgiveness is similar to the act of expressing gratitude: the more specific one can be, the more genuine the act – and this requires truly understanding the situation.
The second “power unique to being human” is shabda (“word”) and it is our ability to not only form a sound, but also to assign meaning that sound; depict that sound and meaning visually; to remember the sound, meaning, and visual depiction and to convey that meaning to others. I think it is obvious how this power comes into play when we are talking about forgiveness and repentance. However, for the record, let me reiterate that the words we use matter because of how we use them! (Also, this is one of those powers where one could say that this is a power other beings in the animal kingdom share with being human. And while this is true, humans have the ability to deliberately and intentionally hone this ability. Consider, also, the power of the written word. A handwritten apology is akin to a love letter.)
Adhyayana is the ability to “study, analyze, and comprehend” and it is directly tied to the first “power unique to being human.” This analytical ability not only allows us to turn inward and gain an understanding of our own intentions (as well as the intentions of others), it also means we can dig deep inside of ourselves and gain a clear understanding of what we are feeling. We can’t always understand how other people are feeling, but we can take a moment to cultivate empathy by considering how we would feel if the shoe were on the other foot. This third power also gives us the ability to understand why one person’s actions, words, and thoughts can hurt us in a way it is hard to get past, while another person’s actions, words, and thoughts feel inconsequential. Finally, it gives us the ability to predict the cause and effect of our thoughts, words, and deeds – which means we have the capacity to not hurt someone and/or to stop making the same mistake over and over again.
“It’s a deep work of the heart that purifies and releases – and somehow permits us to love and be free.”
– quoted from a dhamma talk entitled “The Ancient Heart of Forgiveness” by Jack Kornfield
The fourth “power unique to being human” is dukha-vighata-traya, which means we are born with the ability to eliminate three-fold sorrow (“physical-mental-spiritual suffering”) because we have the ability to understand the cause and the cure of what ails us. Forgiveness and repentance are powerful healing agents. They are a balm to the soul. Letting go of what no longer serves us (or only serves in dividing us) can feel like a cool breeze on a summer day. It’s a clean slate and is like hitting the reset button on a relationship. Remember, as teachers like Jack Kornfield point out, forgiveness is for you: “It’s not for anyone else.”
The final two powers are suhrit-prapti (which is “cultivating a good heart; finding friends”) and dana (“generosity, the ability to give”). I put these two together not because they are less than the others, but because they – along with the fourth – can defy logic. They are, in every tradition, heart practices. The ability to cultivate friendship and emotionally invest in others carries with it the risk of being hurt. There is a reason why the word “passion,” which comes to us from Latin, by way of Old French and Middle English is more closely associated with love (and strong emotions) than with its original meaning “to suffer.” The ability to cultivate a good heart means that we open up to the wisdom that is part of the heart (according to Eastern philosophies) and also that we are capable of thinking beyond our own needs and desires. This last part – the ability to consider the needs and desires of others – is directly tied to our ability to give others what they need, including what is legally ours. We can spend all day considering what material possessions we have that could benefit others, but let us not forget the priceless value of what is in our own hearts. We are the only one who can offer our forgiveness.
“It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself, to forgive. Forgive everybody.”
– Dr. Maya Angelou
Teshuvah (or Tchuvah), the Hebrew word for “repentance, return, turn,” is a big part of the High Holidays. On Yom Kippur, The Day of Atonement, there is even an absolution of vows (every vow). But remember, this is not about self flagellation (or even, really, about condemnation). In offering forgiveness to ourselves and others we are not required to forget or condone bad behavior. Neither are we required to stay in a bad situation. The practice does not require us to be perfect. The practice does, however, require us to open our hearts to the possibility of a new beginning.
“To err is human, to forgive, divine.”
– quoted from “An Essay on Criticism” (line 525) by Alexander Pope
Please join me today (Wednesday, September 28th) at 4:30 PM or 7:15 PM for a yoga practice on Zoom. Use the link from the “Class Schedules” calendar if you run into any problems checking into the class. You will need to register for the 7:15 PM class if you have not already done so. You can request an audio recording of this practice via a comment below.
Wednesday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify. [Look for “High Holidays: Sorry”]
In the spirit of generosity (“dana”), the Zoom classes, recordings, and blog posts are freely given and freely received. If you are able to support these teachings, please do so as your heart moves you. (NOTE: You can donate even if you are “attending” a practice that is not designated as a “Common Ground Meditation Center” practice, or you can purchase class(es). Donations are tax deductible; class purchases are not necessarily deductible.)
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