Giving, Bending, & Doing What You Can (the “missing” 2-for-1 post for Monday & Tuesday) March 29, 2025

“Nowruz Mubarak!” Happy New Year to those who were celebrating! “Ramaḍān Mubarak, Blessed Ramaḍān!” to anyone observing the holy month of Ramaḍān. (Keep your eyes open!) Many blessings also to all, and especially to those who are observing Great Lent and/or Lent!

Peace, ease, action, and giving to all, throughout this “Season for Nonviolence” and all other seasons!

This “missing” 2-for-1 post for Monday, March 24^th and Tuesday, March 25^th features new and previously posted content, as well as excerpts. Since we have entered the final days of Ramaḍān, these practices (and music on Tuesday) include references to Islām. The 2025 prompt question (for Monday) was, “What motivates you to cultivate change? (In other words, what do you consider a call to action?”  You can request an audio recording of this practice or a previous practice via a comment below or (for a slightly faster reply) you can email myra (at) ajoyfulpractice.com.

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“Action is how wisdom changes the world. Without action, our knowledge and insights die with us. Truly nonviolent action is centered in love and compassion. Actions speak louder than words, it is said, yet it is not so much loudness as clarity and truth that matters; a gentle action can be far more powerful than a forceful one. ”

— quoted from the “Reflection” section of the “Day 53 ~ March 24 ~ Action” page for the “Season for Nonviolence,” provided by the Mahatma Gandhi Canadian Foundation for World Peace

Change happens, every time we inhale and every time we exhale. Just notice how your belly rises and falls, how your low ribs expand and relax. Notice the giving and receiving, every time you inhale and every time you exhale.

This all happens whether we actively engage it or not. It happens whether we notice it or not, but take a moment to notice it and to notice what happens when you notice it. More changes happen, right? Maybe you start intentionally breathing a little deeper. Maybe you sit or stand up a little taller, spread your toes a little wider. Maybe you let go of something that no longer serves you. Maybe you engage your core.

Now, bring your awareness to where these changes begin. Yes, they begin with every inhale… and every exhale. They also begin inside of each and every one of us. Change will happen whether we are aware of it or not and whether we actively engage in it (or not). However, more change begins with more awareness — and awareness can be a call to “action”, which was the “Season for Nonviolence” principle on Monday, March 24^th.

“Truth (Satya) implies love, and firmness (agraha) engenders and therefore serves as a synonym for force. I thus began to call the Indian Movement ‘Satyagraha’ , that is to say, the Force which is born of Truth and Love or non-violence, and gave up the use of the phrase ‘passive resistance’ in connection with it, so much so that even in English writing we often avoided it and used instead the word ‘Satyagraha’ itself or some other equivalent English phrase.”

— quoted from “12. THE ADVENT OF SATYAGRAHA” in Satyagraha in South Africa by M. K. Gandhi (as published in THE SELECTED WORKS OF MAHATMA GANDHI, VOLUME TWO, translated from the Gujarati by Valji Govindji Desai; General Editor Shriman Narayan)

We saw people answer the call to action in March (and April) 1930, when people joined Mahatma Gandhi during the Salt Satyagraha in India, and again in March 1965, in the United States, when people joined the marches from Selma to Montgomery. We also saw people answering the call on March 24, 2018, during the March for Our Lives events in Washington, D. C. and around the country. In each of those examples, there were people involved who would be directly (and obviously) impacted by the changes they wanted. Additionally, there were people who (one could argue) would be indirectly and/or not obviously affected by the changes. Yet, every one of the protesters showed up with a commitment to nonviolence and to change.

They also embodied the “Season for Nonviolence” principle for Tuesday, March 25^th — which is also an important element of Islām, especially during Ramaḍān: They were “giving” of themselves.

“In my religious tradition of Islam, worship has elements that are both individualized as well as communal. Within those broader frames of what can be done individually or what can be done communally is also the idea of responsibility, both to the self and responsibility on a social level. So within the prism of giving, it’s seen as a spiritual act, meaning there is a need to understand the fulfillment of rights that the beneficiary has over us and to understand that the pinnacle of a community can’t be actualized until the most underserved and underprivileged needs are both recognized and met.”

— Imam Khalid Latif, quoted from the (April 8, 2021) A&E interview “Voices Magnified: Khalid Latif on the True Meaning of Giving”

The aforementioned events are a reminder that change begins with each of us taking a step towards change. Harnessing the power of who we are, individually and collectively, and giving what we can — every time we inhale, every time we exhale — and then going deeper. They are a reminder that change will happen (and is happening) whether we engage it (or want it).

However, if we want positive change, we have to do the bending and giving (on and off the mat).

“I do not pretend to understand the moral universe. The arc is a long one. My eye reaches but little ways. I cannot calculate the curve and complete the figure by experience of sight. I can divine it by conscience. And from what I see I am sure it bends toward justice.”

— quoted from an 1853 sermon by Theodore Parker

Click on the excerpt title below for more about the Salt Satyagraha.

FTWMI: A Little Salt

The following revised excerpt is from a 2024 post [when March 24^th fell on Palm Sunday (in Western Christian communities) and Purim (in some Jewish communities)]. This excerpt contains passing references to domestic terrorism and violence (but no explicit details). Some links have been updated.

“Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?”

— The Gospel According to Matthew (6:26, NIV)

On March 24, 2018, 1.2 million people in the United States and around the world took part in the March for Our Lives demonstration against gun violence. The non-violent protest was in response to the mass shooting (on Valentine’s Day 2018) that killed 17 people and (physically) injured 17 others at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida. The primary protest event took place in Washington, D. C. and, like so many other “marches” on Washington, it was inspired by the marches during the Civil Rights Movement in the 1960’s, which were inspired by the non-violent protestors who participated in the Salt Satyagraha in March 1930.

Three of those Civil Rights marches started in Selma, Alabama in March 1965. They were in direct response to the murder of activist and deacon Jimmie Lee Jackson. The first of the Selma marches, on March 7^th, was led by Reverend Hosea Williams and (the future congressman) John Lewis. Horrific images from that “Sunday, Bloody, Sunday” march were televised all over the world. The second march, two days later, was led by the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. It became known as “Turnaround (or Turnback) Tuesday”. In addition to Dr. King, some of the people who had marched and been attacked on the 7^th were joined by people who had seen the images from the first march and answered MLK’s call to action. Included in that group were Unitarian Universalist ministers and activists Reverend James Reeb, Reverend Clark Olsen, and Reverend Orloff Miller. While the images televised around the world on March 9^th were more “peaceful”, the ministers (who were all white) were attacked by three white men. Reverend Reeb, who had spent his entire adult life working for civil rights, died on March 11, 1965.

Neither of those first two Selma marches made it past the Edmund Pettus Bridge. In between the second and the third marches, President Lyndon B. Johnson gave his “The American Promise” speech (also known as the “We Shall Overcome” speech) to a joint session of the United States Congress and Judge Frank Minis Johnson (no relation to the president) decided in Williams v. Wallace, 240 F. Supp. 100 (M.D. Ala. 1965) that the marchers were exercising their 1^st Amendment rights and should be allowed to do so without interference from anyone.

Four days after Judge Johnson’s decision, 8,000 people gathered at Brown Chapel AME Church in Selma, Alabama, and started the walk that would lead them to the capital in Montgomery Alabama. By the time the movement reached the City of St. Jude, on March 24^th, approximately 25,000 people were participating in the protest. One of those people was Viola Liuzzo, a Detroit mother of five who volunteered to drive people back to their vehicles in Selma. Like Reverend Reeb, she was murdered after the peaceful protest.

“For my father, though, the march was not simply a political demonstration, but a religious occasion. He saw it as a revival of prophetic Judaism’s political activism and also of the traditions of Hasidism, a Jewish pietistic revival movement that arose in the late eighteenth century, according to which walking could be a spiritual experience.

He said it reminded him of the message of the prophets, whose primary concern was social injustice, and of his Hasidic forebears, for whom compassion for the suffering of other people defined a religious person.”

— quoted from an article about the 40^th Anniversary of the Selma-Montgomery marches, by Dr. Susannah Heschel

As I’ve mentioned before, not everyone who marched from Selma to Montgomery was African American. Neither was everyone Christian.

However, everyone was committed.

“And so as we go away this afternoon, let us go away more than ever before committed to this struggle and committed to nonviolence. I must admit to you that there are still some difficult days ahead. We are still in for a season of suffering in many of the black belt counties of Alabama, many areas of Mississippi, many areas of Louisiana. I must admit to you that there are still jail cells waiting for us, and dark and difficult moments. But if we will go on with the faith that nonviolence and its power can transform dark yesterdays into bright tomorrows, we will be able to change all of these conditions.

And so I plead with you this afternoon as we go ahead: remain committed to nonviolence. Our aim must never be to defeat or humiliate the white man, but to win his friendship and understanding. We must come to see that the end we seek is a society at peace with itself, a society that can live with its conscience. And that will be a day not of the white man, not of the black man. That will be the day of man as man.”

— quoted from the “How Long? Not Long” speech* by the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. (delivered in Montgomery, Alabama, on March 25, 1965)

FTWMI: Keeping the Overcome Promise

“How long? Not long, because the arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice.”

— quoted from the “How Long? Not Long” speech* by the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. (delivered in Montgomery, Alabama, on March 25, 1965)

“‘There is,’ said an Italian philosopher, ‘nothing more difficult to take in hand, more perilous to conduct, or more uncertain in its success than to take the lead in the introduction of a new order of things.’ Yet this is the measure of the task of your generation and the road is strewn with many dangers.

First is the danger of futility; the belief there is nothing one man or one woman can do against the enormous array of the world’s ills – against misery, against ignorance, or injustice and violence. Yet many of the world’s great movements, of thought and action, have flowed from the work of a single man. A young monk began the Protestant reformation, a young general extended an empire from Macedonia to the borders of the earth, and a young woman reclaimed the territory of France. It was a young Italian explorer who discovered the New World, and 32 year old Thomas Jefferson who proclaimed that all men are created equal. ‘Give me a place to stand,’ said Archimedes, ‘and I will move the world.’ These men moved the world, and so can we all. Few will have the greatness to bend history; but each of us can work to change a small portion of the events, and in the total of all these acts will be written the history of this generation. Thousands of Peace Corps volunteers are making a difference in the isolated villages and the city slums of dozens of countries. Thousands of unknown men and women in Europe resisted the occupation of the Nazis and many died, but all added to the ultimate strength and freedom of their countries. It is from numberless diverse acts of courage such as these that the belief that human history is thus shaped. Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring those ripples build a current which can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance.”

— quoted from the “Ripple of Hope” speech (or Day of Affirmation Address) by Senator Robert F. Kennedy (delivered during the “Day of Reaffirmation of Academic and Human Freedom” at the University of Cape Town, South Africa, on June 6, 1966)

Click on the excerpt title below for the first in a series of posts about Ramaḍān.

FTWMI: A Night of Great Power & Great Peace (a “renewed” post)

There is no playlist for the Common Ground Meditation Center practices.

Tuesday’s playlist is available on YouTube and Spotify.

Some quick notes about the music: First, my playlists for the final days of Ramadān are not halal (“permissible”) in all Islamic traditions, because of the orchestrations. They do, however, feature musicians who are Muslim (with a few exceptions).

The Tuesday remix includes some (Gregorian) date-related exceptions. Reba McEntire is another notable exception — notable, because in previous years she was the only female soloist and the only non-Muslim singer on the playlists. While this year’s playlists include several Muslim women as musicians and composers, “Pray for Peace” is still highlighted because it was re-released during the month of Ramadān in 2014 — but not just randomly in the month, the song was released in the last ten days of the month (during the holiest part of the month)!

Some songs on the playlist are Nasheeds (meaning they are religiously moral songs) that, in some traditions, are meant to be sung without instrumentation or only with percussion. I have, however, included orchestrated versions of these songs, because this seems to have worked best in an in-studio setting. I mean no disrespect by this choice. As far as I know, percussion or voice only recordings of the Nasheeds are available (if you want to build your own playlist). Alternatively, you can practice without the music — which is always a suitable option.

Finally, the YouTube version currently includes some additional before/after music.

If you are thinking about suicide, worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, you can dial 988 (in the US) or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. You can also call this TALK line if you are struggling with addiction or involved in an abusive relationship. The Lifeline network is free, confidential, and available to all 24/7. YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING.

White Flag is a new app, which I have not yet researched, but which may be helpful if you need peer-to-peer (non-professional) support.

If you are a young person in crisis, feeling suicidal, or in need of a safe and judgement-free place to talk, you can also click here to contact the TrevorLifeline (which is staffed 24/7 with trained counselors).

*NOTE: This speech is also known as the “Our God Is Marching On!” speech.

### “Give a little bit / Give a little bit of your love to me / I’ll give a little bit / I’ll give a little bit of my love to you” ~ Supertramp (written by Richard Davies, Roger Hodgson)  ###